Should I Hire A Date Coach?
Working with a dating coach can teach you a sex-positive mindset, increase the number of dates you’re going on, and help you stand out on dating apps. If you’re considering hiring, ask yourselves these five questions.
You’re a busy professional who has it all figured out… well, except for this one thing.
Finding a partner can seem like a hopeless endeavor, but it doesn’t have to be! Working with a dating expert and coach can help you change from hopeless romantic to savvy romantic, and succeed at finding love when you otherwise wouldn't know where to start.
If you’re thinking about working with a professional and taking back control of your love life, ask yourself these five questions to see if working with a coach is right for you!
Could I benefit from a sex-positive approach? Sex-positivity is a philosophy that can help you build the fundamentals of dating. Think of it as that class you never had that covers the basic principles of dating and relationships. It includes ethics, open and honest communication, and establishing appropriate relationship dynamics.
Working with a coach can help you apply this philosophy, which will leave you feeling more empowered and knowledgeable when you’re dating.
Do I feel hopeless in my romantic life? While we do have handy-dandy apps… (pause for a sarcastic eye roll,) we can’t just search open positions, submit a resume, and hope for the best. Searching for a partner and searching for a job is not the same thing. Womp, womp.
We can’t simply snap our fingers and make dates appear, and that can make us feel powerless.
Instead, identify specific steps you can take to get closer to your goal of finding love. Learn ways to put yourself out there on a more regular basis, and give yourself a greater chance of a long-lasting partnership.
Are the apps working for me? App dating is indeed the number one method of finding a partner these days. Sorry babes. Dating on apps can be great, but it can also make you want to pull out your hair.
It’s hard enough to know what you’re looking for, let alone try to figure out what the people you’re looking for are looking for.
As a dating coach, we’ll use data-backed research that helps you appeal to more users, attract more matches, engage before a date, and even increase your chances of having a great first date!
Am I open to shifting my expectations? One of the main reasons why people feel unlucky in love is because they don’t know what kind of partner they want. They think they do, but many people go after the wrong things, which can cause rejection and heartache.
Not only is this emotional rollercoaster difficult to deal with, but more importantly: it’s a waste of your time!
Together, we can demystify the qualities that actually matter in long-lasting relationships, and get really clear on what you’re looking for.
Is dating fun for me? Dating shouldn’t feel like a chore. It shouldn’t feel like a job interview. And it definitely shouldn’t feel like something you’re dreading.
(Note: nerves and excitement are a-okay!)
Not all dates will be the best, but you should be having fun!
After all, great friendships can form from going on a date with the “wrong” person. A great partner can be found through the great friendship you made on the date with the “wrong” person.
The more fun you’re having on dates, the more likely you are to make a meaningful connection. Learn what types of dates lead to a great connection and stop going on boring dates.
Schedule a free consultation call and become a Savvy Romantic today!
